Troy Miller

Troy Greyson Miller, age 60, of Olathe, Kansas, passed away on Sunday, November 30, 2025.

Troy was born on September 13, 1965 in Topeka, Kansas, just minutes before his identical twin brother, Todd.

Growing up, the twins were inseparable with friends, Pete and Mike. Troy's mom often thought she was raising quadruplets, the boys were so tight. Their mischievous shenanigans were legendary - including the afternoon they shot bottle rockets through the front door, during which Troy's vest may or may not have briefly caught on fire.

The stories only grew as the boys headed off to college, where their grit and camaraderie earned them a reputation of their own. The twins entered the K-State Intramural Fight Night and each fought their way through their respective brackets until, against all odds, they met in the final match. But when the moment came, they refused to fight each other. By then, the Miller Twins were well known around campus, especially while managing Charlie's-one of the most popular student bars in Manhattan-ensuring the event would have drawn quite the crowd.

Despite his lively social scene, Troy excelled academically, graduating from Kansas State University with a degree in Industrial Engineering. He was a proud member and later an active alumnus of the Pi Kappa Alpha fraternity. Following graduation, he began his career with Andersen Consulting, later Accenture, where he devoted himself to his work. His career took him across the globe serving clients before eventually retiring as a partner in 2016.

Troy met his lifetime dance partner, Debbie Katzer, at a country bar where she handed him her drink and said "hold my beer" as she headed out to the line dance. He called his mother late that night and said, "I just met the future Mrs. Miller". Indeed he had. They married four years later on December 21,1996, and were blessed with three children - TJ, Morgan, and Greyson.

Raising their family, Troy loved attending youth sporting events, camping, and Scouting adventures with his kids. In fact, his love for his family and the outdoors led him and his two sons to hike the Appalachian Trail, a five-month journey of a lifetime voyaging from Springer Mountain, Georgia to Mount Katahdin, Maine.

In the last few years of his life, Troy partnered in business with his brother Jeff, forming WM Properties. Jeff often reflected that-even well into adulthood-he continued learning from Troy: how to steady one's emotions, how to lead with empathy, and how to make decisions rooted in unwavering ethics. Troy's brother, Trevor, shared a similar sentiment, recalling a cherished yet humbling memory from his youth when Troy wrote him a letter from the stands at a wrestling match. In it, Troy encouraged his younger brother to carry himself with humility and strength-to become the kind of man a young boy could aspire to be.

And that is who Troy was: a man not only full of charisma, but also a man of the highest character.

Troy now reunites in heaven with his twin brother, Todd Miller, and his father, Robert Miller.

He is survived by his wife, Debbie Miller; his three children, TJ, Morgan, and Greyson, all of the home; his mother, Karen Ingenthron; his siblings, Jeff (Amy) Wooster, Trevor (Kim) Gray, Travis Miller, and Krystle Miller; and numerous nieces and nephews whom he adored.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Miller Family Legacy Foundation, where gifts will be directed toward the organizations and causes Troy held most dear - including scholarships for students, support for Catholic education, Scout Troop 181, his beloved K-State, and resources for Appalachian Trail travelers.

A Rosary will be held on Thursday, December 11, at 6:30 PM at Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Lenexa. Visitation to follow from 7:00 to 8:00 PM. A Funeral Mass will follow the next morning, Friday, December 12, at 10:30 AM, also at Holy Trinity. Services will ba available for viewing through https://youtube.com/live/D8mSICUzQsc?feature=share. A lunch and reception will be held afterward at the Father Quigley Parish Center on the church campus.

Condolences for the family may be left at www.feuerbornfuneral.com